You know how people are always complaining “So-and-so’s blog was last updated in December? What’s that lazy bum even DOING?” Uh, writing books is what he’s doing. That’s why this is not really a blog but just a very occasional “News ‘n’ Notes.” If you’re the sort of almost indecently smart person who pines for fresh content from yours truly, please consider signing up for my monthly newsletter.
Like I say, there’s not a blessed thing wrong with wanting to be entertained. But if you want more than that out of life—and particularly out of your dating/romantic/sexual life—it’s good to look at, not only what you want, but at what your own choices in life and love say about what you really want (or sometimes what they say about what you feel you deserve.) Your behavior all but shouts the truth about you. The real you.